Are We Really Equals?

For those who choose it, being a parent is a blessing, and most Moms are willing to make sacrifices to be a good one (though it’s normal to try and fail) but not getting regular breaks makes a person less successful, not more successful. So, I would ask the question “Why is it that if a Mom does want/need to work as well and/or wants/needs to spend time alone reconnecting with herself or her friends; she (more often than not) has to stress and jump through hoops (that usually make it not worth it, if not impossible) but it’s automatically assumed that a father is intitled to these things, and carried out without thought, stress, or hoops..?